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Bullying
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Aspergirl98
Rebel98

Welcome me back!

Ok so guys
I know I have been kinda offline recently
But I have been keeping up with school and trying very hard to keep up that gg image of me on my own!
To me now it is gonna hopefully work a I am taking new leaps in my school life to try and get an amazing job in LA and also to out amazing references and qualifications on my resume!
I am even school council and going to many career talks to find my path!
XOXO
Aspergirl98/Rebel98

Sorry :(

Heya followers
Sorry I have not posted for a while
Will update soon
Lots of troubles with out statement request
Xx
Rebel98
AsperGirl98

AsperGirl98 ASD Journal Day 5

Hey y'all
I'm back!
So I know that you all must be wondering about what my next topic will be and too be honest I am wondering that too. Recently I was thinking and chilling on the day that some of my northern friends were coming down to stay for a week; I had been quite anxious for them coming down and I was just about to put on an episode of "LA INK" when suddenly they pulled up outside of our house earlier than I expected. I got very confused and anxious about what to do as I hadn't planned what I was going to say or do when they arrived, plus I was still very stressed out and I did not have my time to chill to prepare myself for their arrival.
As many of you ASD people will know how frustrating this would be for you guys and what I went through.
The only problem was that I wanted to see them and socialise but I really needed that extra 90 minutes before they were scheduled to arrive to chill. Due to the fact that I didn't get this I felt very agitated and fidgety but also unsure what to say or do when they were here as I know that when you haven't seen those people for a long time it can be hard for you to start your special bond quickly after such a long break from each other.
For a couple of days I felt this and I felt even more like this for longer than I'd thought because of "our lady issues" or in another saying " that time of the month" I felt that I could get involved and I wanted to be more alone for most of the time. I also felt like this because the girl who I get on with so well is about 3 years younger than me and that age gap at my age can be very long. At the moment I am more mature that her, but I know that she will catch up with me soon!
Now.....
Advice Time
I think that knowing when they were going to arrive would be good as we hadn't heard from them that whole day!
Also
At that point non of them knew that I had ASD and ( the girl I hang out with the most) got upset because she didn't understand why I wasn't spending time with her. So the advice for this statement would be to tell her and the parents in advance so that they know what to do when you need that chill time and space away for about 30 minutes to regain your thoughts and get calm.
And the last one would be to explain to your guests when you need time out so you can go for it without being disturbed. This I found really worked for me during the last few days of their visit.
On the second day of their visit we went out and I was still really stressed out and made my guests feel uncomfortable because I didn't get my chill out time. So maybe it would've been better if we spent the first day catching up at home and socialising rather than going straight into a long car journey day out.

Thanks guys for tuning in and reading my day 5 blog, I hope that these pieces of advice helps you out and preferably works in the future.
I will be posting day 6 perhaps in the next few weeks maximum.
Hope you're enjoying my blog and feel free to email me any questions or anything you have that you want help on and I will try to answer fully and as honestly as possible.

AsperGirl98 out!
XOXO

Asperger Diary Rebel98/AsperGirl98 Day 4

hey guys

i know, that it is the next day but i felt like i should do day 4 now instead of later on.

i am at my AS friends house and i have notices so many AS things about them that just are so easy to spot. the only problem i have is that i dont know how to tell you about all of these issues so for my sake i am not going to tell you all about it becuase i have just thought about a better idea.

our topic of today is................ Timeout!

so this subject is a real brain buster for me as nothing ever seems to work for me but as you guys all know that not everything works for others but some things work for others!

so you never know, this might actually work for you.

anmyway, this is called THE THINK 6 CARD! 

here are the rules for use:

1)warning- stop that behaviour

2) card- 6 seconds to stop otherwise i'll get ahold of you and remove you from the situation.

3) remove from the situation - 2 meters away/ out of room

STOP, CALM, AND GET OUT!

this is the THINK 6 CARD and you should use it whenever you get very stressed. if you are one of those who does not know when you are angry or stressed then your parents might be the best to do this for you. first of all your parents will realise that you are stressed or even tell you, but if that ( someonme te;lling you, you need time out) then simply they will be the best to just show you the THINK 6 CARD and follow the instructions on that.

in order to do this, you will be best to make your own little card to use.

if this does not work for you, you could think of a word, any word at all preferly one that doesnt mean anything toward the subject so that it will be very wierd and hope to make you laugh so that you will hopefully calm you down and forget about why you were angry in the first place!

so thank you guys again and i hope that you will take some of these ideas on board and also let me know if they work! i would love to know if they work for you; that would make me feel very proud!

thank you for tuning in today and taking your time to read todays blog and feel free to email me! i will be happy to get in touch and answer any question you would like. 

thank you followers

remember this blog comes with a 100% helpful advice gaurantee!

XOXO 

AsperGirl98          Rebel98

 

Asperger Diary Day 3

hey ya'll

sorry again, i think i will be posting each day every few days so i have more time to plan if that is alright!

first of all, i am a bit stuck for a subject to talk about today but an ASD friend of mine gave me a great idea which funnily enough i will be talking about that exxact topoic.

so... todays topic is.........

THERAPY

have any of you or your parent ever thought about having therapy.

i remember about 1 year ago lying down with my mother and actually asking her if i could have therapy i felt really angry and stressed out with the fact that i cant conrol myself and i struggle with my anger and my language. back then, i also had a period of time when i was deaaling with hard hitting depression and it ended up leaving me with no option but to take about 1 month off from school!

this was probably the most hardest thing that i had to deal with and it came to the point where i wanted it all to end and i wanted to end it all and my only idea was...... suicide.

i managed to hide my feelings and bottle them all up (as i always do) so that my parents didnt expect anything. later on in that week, i went quite far and i took a kitchen knife and hid it in my sock drawer. this was quite hard for me and it had reached that point when i actually considered pulling the plug there and then.

after though on this i realised that i did want to die but i didnt and the reason for this was becuase of my parents and my brother! mainly because of my  brother that i did not want to leave this world because he kept it all going.

this is the only thing that i did not tell my therapist. so ssshh dont tell him

anyway back to the therapist subject.

if you have any worries or things that you dont feel comfortable enough to talk to your parents about, log onto the CAMHS website and get in touch with them to organise a meeting and meet your therapist. or if you dont want to meet them just have nnumerous of meetings with your therapist via email.

well ok thanks guys

that is all i have to say for now folks

i will post some more info about CAMHS soon and i hope some of my ideaas should work!

feel free to email or call me or text me and i will answer all questions you may have.

all right

AsperGirl98 Rebel98 is outta here!!

XOXO

 

Jul 23, 2012

Sorry guys for the delay
I will be posting day 3 up tomorrow
I have a lot to think about at the moment

ASD journal Day 2

hey guys, 

sorry i am a few days late, but i have been very busy socialising with some of my other ASD friends who i met through a planning for success course who a lovely lady called Val Goldberg runs during her free time! what a lovely woman she was and still forever will be.

ok. so todays topic will be socializing! now i know for most ASD children or anyone of any age on the spectrum can find this an eye watering subject, but really it shouldnt be. for me, i love to socialise. i love to get to know new people and become a part of thier lives, but there is a point when it comes to a point in a day when i have had just enough socializing for one day! do any of you know what i am talking about; for me most of the adults will know exactly what i am talking about! 

so here are some tips on how to socialise that i learnt from Val during the course....

1) use open and closed questions

2) kepp eye contact or focus on somewhere else on the person who you are talking about but make sure you still keep listening rather than lose everything on focusing on their lips and tune out of everything like on one of those movies you see!

3) have a good humour, make them laugh to break the ice otherwise you might end up in a bit of an awkward pickle if no one is laughing! LOL (laugh Out Loud!)

ok; so i hope thesse 3 tips help you and i will also post some more up for you so you are not toally alone, but here is just a start.

thank you for tuning in today, and i will be here if anyone would like to give me a call or email whatever, i will always put my 100% focus on yu and whatever it is that you need help with!

this bl;og comes with a lifetime gauruntee. not returnable...

day 3 will be up soon

Rebel98/AsperGirl98 out!!

xx

AsperGirl98 ASD journal Day 1

Hi Everyone!

how have you been? I hope you have had a good few days....

for everyone out there who as ASD, i am pretty sure that what i am about to tell you;you will all agree with. well perhaps not all it is very different for everybody but at least to me this is.....

the subject today is:              SCHOOL!!

aah the horror that we all have to face that rattles our social and sensory issues. now for me this is the worst thing for me and i am one of those ASD teenagers who reaaly struggle with school. what about you guys though??

some of the most hardest things i have to face with the endless battle with school are the immaturity of the kids! they are so horrible and act like babies, but for a starter their language is absolutely appauling... all you ever here is F this F that!! when will they ever grow up!?

now i am sure that most of your parent will be thinking this..." if you hate other kids swearing.... why do you do it!!??"

this is something my mother always asks me and for those ASD kids out there i bet you will be thinking that they just dont understand and it is different for us!

true. but not necessarily the best route to go down as a lot of the time it hurts your family and makes them get up set; which no doubt we dont like.

the theme for today is...:

Think of others.....How do they feel?

this statement is one of the best things to know, because not many of you would take the time to think when you are angry or upset and just as you are about to day something very rude and upsetting, do this for me...

here are the steps to be thinking  and whether you say it or dont:

1) how do they feel when they hear you saying all of this?

2) if you're this upset, why do you want to make them upset as well?

3) how would YOU feel if your child said these things to you?

if you really want to stop all of this anger outburst or even just the appauling language, keep reminding your sself these few sentences..

1) you can do it! DONT GIVE UP!

2) keep fighting and all the suffering will be over (sorry if the ASD children dont get this one as i know metaphors can confuse them a lot)

3) Everything will work out in the end. Trust me.

 

thank you for logging in today, and i'll be back here again tomorrow sometime with Day 2.

remember- if you dont want to do it for others; at least do it for your self and make our self feel better and goto your parent, they are there stood by your side no matter what! they will fight for your happiness and the best life for you!

XOXO

AsperGirl98 

 

 

Jul 18, 2012

Ooooo!!!😥😒👎💤💊
I have got the worst stomach pains ever!! Hurts so bad!!
I can't sleep and I feel sick! What a great time to tart a Wednesday!
Xx oo hurts even more
Must be because I haven't eaten very much today
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